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Re: Warning: tearjerker content ahead
« Reply #135 on: February 22, 2007, 10:31:32 PM »
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So I had one of the more depressing days of my life today. We had to put our dog, Charlie, to sleep this afternoon. He a was 15 1/2 and had seriously degrading arthritis in his hips, and we could tell that he was getting worse day by day. Then the last week or so his appetite had fallen off, and there were other signs he wasn't doing well. This morning he couldn't even raise himself from his bed, and I knew it had to be soon. Probably the toughest decision I've ever had to make, but it was the right one as I know he's not suffering. He was a black retriever and border collie mutt, and the best dog I ever had, so full of love and devotion to Sarah and I, his people.

Farewell, my pal. I'll see you on the other side.  :cry:

So so sorry. I had that happen with a wonderful cat a few years ago.
I hope you'll have warm memories that will make you feel good.

So so long ago when I was in my late teens, I took my aged dog (who was then living with my mother) to the vet for the last time and when I emerged there was a rainbow. To this day when I see a rainbow, I imagine my dog, as a young healthy pup,  running up it on his way to heaven.
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Re: Warning: tearjerker content ahead
« Reply #136 on: February 23, 2007, 10:11:55 AM »
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So so long ago when I was in my late teens, I took my aged dog (who was then living with my mother) to the vet for the last time and when I emerged there was a rainbow. To this day when I see a rainbow, I imagine my dog, as a young healthy pup,  running up it on his way to heaven.


That's beautiful. I'm sure I'll find something like that that'll trigger a great memory of Charlie, too.  Thanks for sharing that, Alicat.
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« Reply #137 on: March 09, 2007, 11:21:25 AM »
Two quick personal notes as we head into the weekend:

1. The Voice fired another editor in chief last week.  It's been quite turbulent.  The gossip folks at Gawker can recap better than I can.

2. I'm moving to Brooklyn at the end of the month -- found a rent-controlled 2BR place in South Slope (the south end of Park Slope, close to Prospect Park) for $300 less than my current West Village studio.  Wish me luck -- moving is always a stressful thing (and this is my first move in 4 years, my longest stretch at one addy since the '70s).
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« Reply #138 on: March 09, 2007, 12:09:10 PM »
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Two quick personal notes as we head into the weekend:

1. The Voice fired another editor in chief last week.  It's been quite turbulent.  The gossip folks at Gawker can recap better than I can.

2. I'm moving to Brooklyn at the end of the month -- found a rent-controlled 2BR place in South Slope (the south end of Park Slope, close to Prospect Park) for $300 less than my current West Village studio.  Wish me luck -- moving is always a stressful thing (and this is my first move in 4 years, my longest stretch at one addy since the '70s).


Isn't that where Heath Ledger lives? :wink:   A nice area, I'm told.  And if you're near the subway, no biggie.  I look forward to visiting in June.  Congrats on the find! Rent control rules!
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« Reply #139 on: March 10, 2007, 10:10:28 AM »
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Two quick personal notes as we head into the weekend:

1. The Voice fired another editor in chief last week.  It's been quite turbulent.  The gossip folks at Gawker can recap better than I can.

2. I'm moving to Brooklyn at the end of the month -- found a rent-controlled 2BR place in South Slope (the south end of Park Slope, close to Prospect Park) for $300 less than my current West Village studio.  Wish me luck -- moving is always a stressful thing (and this is my first move in 4 years, my longest stretch at one addy since the '70s).

Good luck and congratulations.
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« Reply #140 on: March 11, 2007, 12:06:00 PM »
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Two quick personal notes as we head into the weekend:

1. The Voice fired another editor in chief last week.  It's been quite turbulent.  The gossip folks at Gawker can recap better than I can.

2. I'm moving to Brooklyn at the end of the month -- found a rent-controlled 2BR place in South Slope (the south end of Park Slope, close to Prospect Park) for $300 less than my current West Village studio.  Wish me luck -- moving is always a stressful thing (and this is my first move in 4 years, my longest stretch at one addy since the '70s).


congrats on the move! i'll miss the tiny pad, though i'm looking forward to visiting the new place!!

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« Reply #141 on: March 11, 2007, 01:09:37 PM »
Hello, all,

My father will be presenting his play next weekend (and in April) in Oakland. If the story (below) interests you, check it out!

Saturday, March 17 & 24, 2007 | 7-9 pm
House Of Unity Theater
7200 Bancroft Ave Suite 230 Oakland, CA 94605
Eddie Abrams | 510-430-9931 408-206-1768
Donations: $10

Also the following dates: 7, 14, 21, and 28 April
http://www.carlraye.com/events.shtml

"A Killing In Choctaw" is a one-man, two-act play written and performed by Carl Ray. The play is about his life growing up in Alabama. In 1962, while being questioned by a white man, Carl responded by saying "yes" and "no," instead of "yes sir" and "no sir," which was the customary response when addressing white people. Carl was severely beaten for being disrespectful. An hour later, that man went to Carl's home and shot his Father eight times as Carl looked on.

The play deals with the years following the tragedy, beginning with the trial, in which Carl was blamed for his Father's death because he did not know how to respect whites. It was suggested to the court that Carl be taken to the Mississippi State Line and thrown out of the state of Alabama, and not allowed back until he knew how to talk to white people.

After the trial, the traumatized and guilt-ridden 18-year old was taken to Tuskegee Institute where four faculty members spent a year counseling him through nervous breakdowns and depression. Due to shock, Carl had shut down and refused to talk. He remained in a zombified state. As a result of the incident, Carl developed three different personalities. One of the personalities was prone to blackouts and violent behavior.

Carl graduated from Tuskegee in Electrical Engineering and worked for thirteen years in the Aerospace Industry before pursuing a career as a stand-up comedian. On the surface, Carl appeared to be a normal, successful individual. After 22 years of trying to manage his secret of his Father's death, his states of depression, guilt, and multiple personalities, Carl was still suffering.

In 1984, Carl met a man who talked to him about the power of forgiveness. Carl attributes the act of forgiving the man who killed his Father as saving his life. He describes it as being the most enjoyable moment of his life - a day of freedom from his self-imposed prison.

In the play, Carl takes the audience through his personal agony of being humiliated in a Jim Crow court trial to being locked in a hotel room and being harassed by eight members of the Klan, the night before George Wallace stood in the door of the University of Alabama to keep black students out; he gives you a peek into the struggles of being a polio victim attending grade school; how his Father's killer became his imaginary enemy and friend; the nurturing environment at Tuskegee Institute, his changes in careers - from engineer to taxi driver to stand-up comedian - and more.


Thanks!
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« Reply #142 on: April 09, 2007, 10:40:41 AM »
Now it can be told:  I'm the latest 10@10 Clubber to change jobs.  My last day at Blue Shield is next Tuesday; I start at Kaiser in Oakland the following Mon (4/23).

Not a huge step up but enough of one to warrant commuting to Oaktown. Like Ali and Mark before me, the move will probably result in a lot less posting, at least initially.
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« Reply #143 on: April 09, 2007, 10:53:23 AM »
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Now it can be told:  I'm the latest 10@10 Clubber to change jobs.  My last day at Blue Shield is next Tuesday; I start at Kaiser in Oakland the following Mon (4/23).

Not a huge step up but enough of one to warrant commuting to Oaktown. Like Ali and Mark before me, the move will probably result in a lot less posting, at least initially.


Hey, many congrats on switching gigs. You've mentioned you were after a change a few times, so glad it's finally happening for ya.

I think Rod and maybe the long-missing Beej are the only ones of the regulars to have stayed with one job for their entire tenure here.

And the commute shouldn't be a whole lot worse, just more expensive (no more fast-pass BART access).
Let's get right to it.

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« Reply #144 on: April 09, 2007, 11:05:03 AM »
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Now it can be told:  I'm the latest 10@10 Clubber to change jobs.  My last day at Blue Shield is next Tuesday; I start at Kaiser in Oakland the following Mon (4/23).

Not a huge step up but enough of one to warrant commuting to Oaktown. Like Ali and Mark before me, the move will probably result in a lot less posting, at least initially.


Hey, many congrats on switching gigs. You've mentioned you were after a change a few times, so glad it's finally happening for ya.

I think Rod and maybe the long-missing Beej are the only one of the regulars to have stayed with one job for their entire tenure here.

And the commute shouldn't be a whole lot worse, just more expensive (no more fast-pass BART access).


indeed, it's like 10 extra minutes each way -- the office is a block from 19th St BART.  And Kaiser has Commuter Check, which pays (I think) 30 or 40% of the BART ticket cost.  I'd have to be paid WAY more to commute to, say, Walnut Creek or Fremont.
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« Reply #145 on: April 09, 2007, 11:24:10 AM »
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I'd have to be paid WAY more to commute to, say, Walnut Creek or Fremont.


and not just in $$! :)

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« Reply #146 on: April 09, 2007, 10:49:20 PM »
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Now it can be told:  I'm the latest 10@10 Clubber to change jobs.  My last day at Blue Shield is next Tuesday; I start at Kaiser in Oakland the following Mon (4/23).

Not a huge step up but enough of one to warrant commuting to Oaktown. Like Ali and Mark before me, the move will probably result in a lot less posting, at least initially.


Bon chance!  Although your absence here will be a conspicuous one.  Hope the change of scenery does ya good!
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« Reply #147 on: April 09, 2007, 11:43:55 PM »
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Now it can be told:  I'm the latest 10@10 Clubber to change jobs.  My last day at Blue Shield is next Tuesday; I start at Kaiser in Oakland the following Mon (4/23).

Not a huge step up but enough of one to warrant commuting to Oaktown. Like Ali and Mark before me, the move will probably result in a lot less posting, at least initially.

Congrats!! My posting is still down almost 2 years later.

Are you going to get to any Sharks Round 1 playoff games?
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« Reply #148 on: April 10, 2007, 07:53:38 AM »
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Now it can be told:  I'm the latest 10@10 Clubber to change jobs.  My last day at Blue Shield is next Tuesday; I start at Kaiser in Oakland the following Mon (4/23).

Not a huge step up but enough of one to warrant commuting to Oaktown. Like Ali and Mark before me, the move will probably result in a lot less posting, at least initially.

Congrats!! My posting is still down almost 2 years later.

Are you going to get to any Sharks Round 1 playoff games?


No playoffs for me :cry: -- driving to SJ on a "school night" is really more than I can handle.  I will be going to the Giants game next Thurs afternoon, tho', to see them play the Cards.
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« Reply #149 on: April 10, 2007, 10:14:31 AM »
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Now it can be told:  I'm the latest 10@10 Clubber to change jobs.  My last day at Blue Shield is next Tuesday; I start at Kaiser in Oakland the following Mon (4/23).

Not a huge step up but enough of one to warrant commuting to Oaktown. Like Ali and Mark before me, the move will probably result in a lot less posting, at least initially.

Congrats!! My posting is still down almost 2 years later.

Are you going to get to any Sharks Round 1 playoff games?


No playoffs for me :cry: -- driving to SJ on a "school night" is really more than I can handle.  I will be going to the Giants game next Thurs afternoon, tho', to see them play the Cards.

I think my friend is giving up her game B playoff to be at the Cards on Wed. nite.
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