great piece on the subject from CNN.com by ESPN's LZ Granderson.
http://www.cnn.com/2010/OPINION/04/06/granderson.gay.lifestyle/index.html?hpt=C2
yes, the great mysterious "homosexual" scares a lot of folks. If they get to know gay people, they'll realize they're just as regular and boring as everyone else. They come home and watch too much TV, don't eat right, are too tired to fix that broken thing they're SO keeps nagging them about, hope the Giants can win a freakin' series before they die, I mean, come on already! -- or maybe they don't give a crap about sports, but they also don't give a crap about drag shows, or fashion, or keeping a clean apt or whatever.